Writing your vows can be stressful, overwhelming, and just downright hard. Let’s dive into these 25 Christian wedding vow prompts designed to help make it easy.
1. I promise to love you as Christ loves us…
I promise to love you as Christ loves us, unconditionally and sacrificially, through all seasons of our life together.
- Core Promise: I promise to love you as Christ loves us, unconditionally and sacrificially.
- Personal Touch: Mention specific qualities you love about your partner and how they reflect Christ’s love.
- Scriptural Blessing: End with a favorite scripture about love, such as 1 Corinthians 13:4-7.
2. I vow to be your faithful partner…
I vow to be your faithful partner, in joy and in sorrow, in sickness and in health, as long as we both shall live.
- Core Promise: I vow to be your faithful partner, in joy and in sorrow.
- Personal Touch: Recall a memory where you both supported each other.
- Scriptural Blessing: Use a verse that speaks to faithfulness, like Proverbs 3:3-4.
3. I commit to grow with you in faith…
I commit to grow with you in faith, always putting God at the center of our marriage.
- Core Promise: I commit to grow with you in faith, always putting God at the center of our marriage.
- Personal Touch: Discuss your hopes for spiritual growth together.
- Scriptural Blessing: Include a prayer for spiritual unity, referencing Ephesians 4:15.
4. I vow to be your prayer partner…
I vow to be your prayer partner, to seek God’s wisdom in all our decisions, and to keep our relationship in constant prayer.
- Core Promise: I vow to be your prayer partner, to seek God’s wisdom in all our decisions.
- Personal Touch: Share how praying together has strengthened your relationship.
- Scriptural Blessing: Offer a prayer for guidance, inspired by Philippians 4:6.
5. I promise to always offer you grace…
I promise to always offer you grace as freely as Christ has given us, and to forgive as we have been forgiven.
- Core Promise: I promise to always offer you grace as freely as Christ has given us, and to forgive as we have been forgiven.
- Personal Touch: Acknowledge past moments where forgiveness strengthened your bond.
- Scriptural Blessing: Quote a scripture about forgiveness, such as Colossians 3:13.
6. I vow to support your dreams…
I vow to support your dreams and to be your biggest encourager as we walk in faith together.
- Core Promise: I vow to support your dreams and to be your biggest encourager as we walk in faith together.
- Personal Touch: Describe a dream or ambition your partner has that you wholeheartedly support.
- Scriptural Blessing: “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:11
7. I commit to serve alongside you…
I commit to serve alongside you, to share God’s love through our actions, and to make our home a place of generosity and kindness.
- Core Promise: I commit to serve alongside you, to share God’s love through our actions.
- Personal Touch: Mention a service project or ministry you’re excited to engage in together.
- Scriptural Blessing: “Serve one another humbly in love.” – Galatians 5:13
8. I promise to respect you and cherish you…
I promise to respect you and cherish you, to honor your needs above my own, and to provide a godly example for our family.
- Core Promise: I promise to respect you and cherish you, to honor your needs above my own.
- Personal Touch: Talk about the ways you feel respected and cherished by your partner.
- Scriptural Blessing: “Honor one another above yourselves.” – Romans 12:10
9. I vow to be patient…
I vow to be patient, to bear with you in love, and to maintain a gentle spirit through the trials and triumphs.
- Core Promise: I vow to be patient, to bear with you in love, and to maintain a gentle spirit.
- Personal Touch: Share an instance where patience played a key role in resolving a conflict.
- Scriptural Blessing: “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.” – Ephesians 4:2
10. I promise to lead our family towards Christ…
I promise to lead our family towards Christ, to uphold biblical values, and to ensure that we live a life that glorifies God.
- Core Promise: I promise to lead our family towards Christ, to uphold biblical values.
- Personal Touch: Discuss how you see your roles evolving in spiritual leadership within the family.
- Scriptural Blessing: “But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD.” – Joshua 24:15
11. I commit to pursue unity with you in Christ…
I commit to pursue unity with you in Christ, to resolve our conflicts with compassion, and to strive for peace in our home.
- Core Promise: I commit to pursue unity with you in Christ, to resolve our conflicts with compassion.
- Personal Touch: Discuss a challenge you’ve faced together and how you worked through it with grace.
- Scriptural Blessing: “Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” – Ephesians 4:3
12. I vow to learn with you about God, about life…
I vow to learn with you about God, about life, and about each other, always seeking knowledge and wisdom.
- Core Promise: I vow to learn with you about God, about life, and about each other.
- Personal Touch: Mention an area of life or spirituality where you both are excited to grow.
- Scriptural Blessing: “Let the wise listen and add to their learning, and let the discerning get guidance.” – Proverbs 1:5
13. I promise to protect you with my strength…
I promise to protect you with my strength and to provide for you through my labor, trusting God to meet our needs.
- Core Promise: I promise to protect you with my strength and to provide for you through my labor, trusting God to meet our needs.
- Personal Touch: Share an instance when you felt your partner provided support or protection.
- Scriptural Blessing: “But the Lord is faithful, and he will strengthen you and protect you from the evil one.” – 2 Thessalonians 3:3
14. I commit to laugh with you…
I commit to laugh with you, to enjoy life with you, and to cultivate a spirit of joy in our marriage.
- Core Promise: I commit to laugh with you, to enjoy life with you, and to cultivate a spirit of joy in our marriage.
- Personal Touch: Recall a joyful moment you shared that highlights your partner’s sense of humor or zest for life.
- Scriptural Blessing: “A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.” – Proverbs 17:22
15. I vow to co-labor with you in ministry…
I vow to co-labor with you in ministry, supporting your callings and ministering together in harmony.
- Core Promise: I vow to co-labor with you in ministry, supporting your callings and ministering together in harmony.
- Personal Touch: Discuss a ministry or mission that is close to both of your hearts.
- Scriptural Blessing: “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor.” – Ecclesiastes 4:9
16. I promise to be honest and transparent…
I promise to be honest and transparent, maintaining integrity in all aspects of our life together.
- Core Promise: I promise to be honest and transparent, maintaining integrity in all aspects of our life together.
- Personal Touch: Share how honesty has strengthened your trust in one another.
- Scriptural Blessing: “The integrity of the upright guides them, but the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity.” – Proverbs 11:3
17. I vow to be committed to our family…
I vow to be committed to our family, ensuring that our home is a testament to the love and grace of God.
- Core Promise: I vow to be committed to our family, ensuring that our home is a testament to the love and grace of God.
- Personal Touch: Talk about what family means to you and how you plan to foster a loving home.
- Scriptural Blessing: “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” – Joshua 24:15
18. I promise to submit to you…
I promise to submit to you out of reverence for Christ, honoring your role in our marriage as we walk side by side.
- Core Promise: I promise to submit to you out of reverence for Christ, honoring your role in our marriage as we walk side by side.
- Personal Touch: Reflect on how mutual respect has positively impacted your relationship.
- Scriptural Blessing: “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” – Ephesians 5:21
19. I vow to keep this covenant…
I vow to keep this covenant made before God as sacred, never forsaking my love or duties to you.
- Core Promise: I vow to keep this covenant made before God as sacred, never forsaking my love or duties to you.
- Personal Touch: Discuss the importance of commitment and how you intend to uphold your promises.
- Scriptural Blessing: “Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart.” – Proverbs 3:3
20. I commit to stand by you in all hardships…
I commit to stand by you in all hardships, persevering in faith and love, trusting that God will guide us through.
- Core Promise: I commit to stand by you in all hardships, persevering in faith and love, trusting that God will guide us through.
- Personal Touch: Mention a difficult time and how you supported each other.
- Scriptural Blessing: “Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.” – Romans 12:12
21. I promise to worship with you…
I promise to worship with you, to raise our voices in praise and to keep our hearts focused on the divine.
- Core Promise: I promise to worship with you, to raise our voices in praise and to keep our hearts focused on the divine.
- Personal Touch: Share your favorite worship song or a meaningful worship experience you’ve shared.
- Scriptural Blessing: “Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord.” – Ephesians 5:19
22. I vow to nurture our relationship…
I vow to nurture our relationship, to cultivate a loving environment, and to care deeply for your wellbeing.
- Core Promise: I vow to nurture our relationship, to cultivate a loving environment, and to care deeply for your wellbeing.
- Personal Touch: Describe how you plan to nurture each other’s emotional and spiritual needs.
- Scriptural Blessing: “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.” – 1 Peter 4:8
23. I commit to embark on this adventure with you…
I commit to embark on this adventure with you, trusting in God’s plan, wherever He may lead us.
- Core Promise: I commit to embark on this adventure with you, trusting in God’s plan, wherever He may lead us.
- Personal Touch: Talk about a future adventure or dream you hope to pursue together.
- Scriptural Blessing: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.” – Proverbs 3:5-6
24. I vow to love you for eternity…
I vow to love you for eternity, reflecting the everlasting love God has shown us.
- Core Promise: I vow to love you for eternity, reflecting the everlasting love God has shown us.
- Personal Touch: Reflect on the everlasting nature of your love and how it mirrors the eternal love of God.
- Scriptural Blessing: “May the Lord direct your hearts into God’s love and Christ’s perseverance.” – 2 Thessalonians 3:5
25. I promise to honor you…
I promise to honor you with my words and actions, always seeking to lift you up as my spouse and best friend.
- Core Promise: I promise to bless you with my words and actions, always seeking to honor you as my spouse and best friend.
- Personal Touch: Mention specific ways you feel blessed by your partner and how you intend to honor them daily.
- Scriptural Blessing: “The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.” – Numbers 6:24-26
We hope these prompts help you create vows that truly resonate with your heart and your faith. As you prepare to step into this beautiful chapter, remember that your vows are a reflection of your bond and commitment to one another. Happy writing!
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